A 14-day email experience for married couples

Get NakedOr I'm Starting Without You!

More fulfilling sex. More of each other.

You want more fun in bed. More “I can’t wait to get you alone.” And a way to bring up that thing you’ve been thinking about.

Start with a flirty story in your inbox. Bring the anticipation into your own marriage with expert coaching and playful invitations to try together.

About seven to ten minutes a day to start together; enjoy the rest at your own pace.

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$30 total for both spouses

Read the free Day 1 preview
Something to think about until you’re alone.
A little of Day 2

Jax & Bryne

Their texts. Your kind of flirting.

Bryne

I want you.

Jax

I was going to put on my ugly sleep shirt. Changing course.

Let's Play · Day 1

A kiss that lasts longer than the usual hello.

A small invitation. Your own pace.

Maybe this sounds familiar

There’s more you want
to enjoy together.

You love your spouse. You want a sex life you both look forward to.

01

The sex is good.
You want more to discover.

A private surprise. A bolder invitation. That look across the room that makes you want to get home.

02

You want more play.
You’re not sure how to ask.

There’s something you’d love to try. You make a joke, test the waters, then keep the rest to yourself.

03

You want more sex.
They want it less often.

You miss feeling wanted. They feel the pressure. You want to find something you can both enjoy without another round of the same argument.

A little anticipation. Every day.

Open the email.
See what happens next.

A text she almost deletes. A voice memo he hopes she’ll play. A weekend away, two separate rentals, and a few private ideas that don’t make the packing list.

You may recognize yourself in the way Jax and Bryne flirt, or in what Beckett and Sarah leave unsaid. See what they do next. Then bring something back to your own marriage, with the expert advice from Rich and DeAnna.

How does it work?

  1. Start together.

    One purchase includes both spouses. Your welcome email and Day 1 arrive right away.

  2. Open the next email.

    Days 2 through 14 arrive one day apart, each with the next story and a link to private coaching.

  3. Bring it into your marriage.

    Try a longer kiss, a private invitation, or a new way to say what you want. Choose what you both enjoy, and return to unlocked days anytime.

Preview the Day 1 coaching

The whole experience

Here's what you get.

14days
  • 14 story emailsFlirting, private surprises, and a continuing story you’ll want to open tomorrow.
  • 14 private coaching pagesExpert guidance to recognize your own habits and try a different next step.
  • Borrow Our LanguageWords to help you say the part you usually keep to yourself.
  • Questions & invitations to playLonger kisses, voice messages, playful curiosity, and private surprises. Make each invitation your own.
  • Access for both spousesOne purchase. Your personal email links. The same daily experience.
$30 total for both of you

A little of Let's Play

See what a little play can look like.

Three invitations from the experience. Make them your own.

Day 2

Let them hear it.

Send a flirty text. Follow it with a voice message so your spouse can hear how much you mean it.

Day 7

Choose the song.

Send a private invitation for later. Choose a song, wear something you like, and dance close.

Day 11

Make an entrance.

Surprise your spouse with an invitation you would enjoy offering. You choose the moment and how daring to be.

Choose what you both want. There is room to laugh, change an idea, and enjoy yourselves.

Borrow our language

Say the part you mean.

A little of Day 1. Make the words your own.

I made a joke, but I do mean it. I would love that with you.

I like hearing that you want me. Tell me more.

Rich and DeAnna Millentree smiling together
Rich + DeAnna
Millentree
Marriage Coaches

Meet your coaches

We want you to
enjoy each other.

We're Rich and DeAnna, certified Christian marriage coaches and the founders of Growing In Marriage. For more than 15 years, we've helped couples understand what keeps happening between them and practice a different next step.

We want you to finish an email smiling and thinking about your own spouse. Maybe you send the text. Maybe you ask for the kiss you actually want. We’ll help you practice the honesty that makes room for more enjoyment, including when the answer feels awkward or you want different things.

Read a little coaching from us

Get Naked–or I'm Starting Without You!

Give yourselves something
to look forward to.

A good story. A little anticipation. Something to try with the person you love.

$30 one time, both spouses

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A few questions

Before you
get naked.

What happens when we begin?

Your welcome email and Day 1 are available right away when you begin. Days 2 through 14 arrive one day apart, including weekends, at 5 AM Pacific. Tap the personal button in each story email to open that day's coaching directly. No separate sign-in is needed.

The experience is shared by both spouses on the same schedule. Days unlock as you go, and you can return to an unlocked day whenever you like.

What is on each daily page?

Rich and DeAnna connect the story to moments you may recognize in your own marriage. The Coaching Moment gives you a practical next step. You’ll find a takeaway, words to borrow, a question, and a Let’s Play invitation to make your own.

You might catch yourself turning a wish into a joke, saying yes to manage disappointment, or pulling away after a no. You’ll practice being clearer about your own desire and staying honest after both of you have spoken. On days for enjoying yourselves, reflection can wait until afterward.

Is this for couples who already enjoy sex?

Yes. You can have a sex life you enjoy and want more anticipation, pleasure, or adventure with your spouse. Get Naked–or I'm Starting Without You! invites you to discover more of what you like together and become more honest about what you want.

Who are Jax, Bryne, Beckett, and Sarah?

Meet the two married couples at the heart of the story. Jax and Bryne have an easy, affectionate sense of humor and a few private ideas for their weekend away. Beckett and Sarah love each other, but often want different things. Sarah is finding her own way into play, while Beckett is learning to be honest about desire and disappointment.

We created these characters for this experience. They aren’t real couples or accounts of people we coach. Their stories give you room to smile, recognize something familiar, and consider what you want to try with your own spouse.

How do I invite my spouse without making this feel like another assignment?

Start with something you would enjoy together. You might say, “I found a 14-day experience with flirty stories and little things we can try together. I thought it could be fun with you. Want to read the first day and see what you think?”

The free Day 1 preview gives you both a look before you buy. Let your spouse have an honest response. Being interested doesn’t commit either of you to every invitation, and a little curiosity is enough to begin the conversation.

What if we want different things, or one of us feels guarded?

There is room for you here too. Beckett and Sarah's story includes a difference in desire, repeated initiation, disappointment, and the small ways a spouse can pull away. You will see what happens after they speak honestly and the difference remains.

The coaching helps you recognize your own response and choose a next step. No one is required to match the other's desire, and a clear no belongs in an honest conversation.

How adventurous are the stories and invitations?

The stories are flirty and warmly sensual, with sexual themes, affectionate humor, and private moments between married spouses. Expect anticipation and playful surprises without graphic descriptions. The invitations include familiar pleasure and chances to explore something new together.

Jax and Bryne, and Beckett and Sarah, are friends. Their intimate lives stay privately within their own marriages. They do not share sexual experiences or discuss their sex lives with each other.

Do we have to try every invitation?

No. Choose what you both want. A familiar pleasure can be a good choice. So can a new idea, a different version, or a clear no. Neither spouse has to perform excitement or agree to a sexual activity to complete the experience.

The point is to discover what you actually enjoy together and get better at letting each other know. When a difference remains, the coaching helps you choose a next step without hiding your desire or managing your spouse’s answer.

Does $30 really include both of us?

Yes. It is one payment of $30 total for both spouses, with no recurring subscription for this product. Each spouse receives a personal access link by email, with the same daily schedule. This purchase gives you Get Naked–or I'm Starting Without You! Other Marriage Series products are purchased separately.

What's your refund policy?

This is a digital product. All purchases are final, and we do not offer refunds.

Do we need a weekend away, or a lot of time?

No trip is needed. The couples head away for the weekend in the story. You can enjoy the experience at home. Allow about 7 to 10 minutes to read and begin together. Some conversations may take longer, and you can enjoy the play at your own pace.

Is this private? Do we submit our answers?

Your personal links open the coaching pages directly, and days unlock according to your purchase schedule. You won't submit intimate answers or reflections on the website. The conversations and invitations are for you and your spouse.

Are there videos, calls, or a physical book?

Everything in this experience is written: the story arrives by email, and your personal button opens A Closer Look, the coaching, and the invitations to play on the website. There are no videos, audio recordings, live sessions, or physical books included.

Can I purchase this as a gift for a couple?

Yes! One $30 gift includes Get Naked for both spouses. Purchase a gift for a couple, choose a card design, add a personal message, and send it right away or schedule a delivery date. Each spouse receives a gift email with the same shared code. Their welcome email and Day 1 experience arrive only after either spouse activates the gift.

Can we buy it today?

Yes. Get Naked–or I'm Starting Without You! is $30 total for both spouses. Buy Now to begin your 14-day experience.

$30 for both
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