You promised yourself this was the last time.
Then it happened again. Now the voice in your head has moved from what you did to what kind of man you must be.
A 14-DAY EXPERIENCE FOR CHRISTIAN MARRIED MEN
WANTED
Facing the Shame of Pornography with the God Who Never Gives Up on You
You want to stop hiding. You’re afraid of what being known will cost.
Bring the shame you carry around pornography to Jesus. Follow one man’s story, receive biblical coaching, and find ways to put what you’re learning into practice.
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A LITTLE OF DAY 1
Before he got home
“I keep telling myself I’m done,” he said. “Then I do it again.”
“And you didn’t tell me.”
“I thought I could stop.”
GARRETT + MIA
KEEP THIS WITH YOU
You can take responsibility for what you’ve done while receiving God’s mercy.
FROM THE DAY 1 COACHING14 Emails14 Daily Coaching GuidesPractical Invitations$30 Full Access
MAYBE THIS SOUNDS FAMILIAR
You’re carrying more than the secret.
You may know what you need to confess and still believe that telling the truth will leave you unwanted.
You want help. You keep saying you’re fine.
You imagine the look on someone’s face if they knew. So you edit the story, put off the conversation, and try to handle it alone.
You believe God loves you. It’s hard to come close.
You’ll pray when you’ve had a better week. You’ll ask for help when you have something better to report. Until then, you keep your distance.
WHAT SHAME CAN KEEP GOING
Sometimes shame is there before the browser opens.
Shame can follow pornography use. It can also be there long before it.
Maybe you already feel unwanted, inadequate, or afraid of being known. Pornography can become a place you turn for relief. Afterward, shame gives you another reason to hide, and the isolation can leave you reaching for that relief again.
Wanted helps you notice where shame speaks in your own story and practice answering it with what God says. As you receive His care, you’ll take concrete steps toward honesty, support, and responsibility for your choices.
You can bring God the truth while there is still work to do.
ONE CONTINUING STORY
Walk with Garrett. Make room for Mia.
Garrett has kept his pornography use hidden. When Mia discovers it, the story he has told himself begins to unravel.
Across fourteen emails, you’ll follow hard conversations, a friendship he almost avoids, prayers he struggles to begin, and choices that still need work. Mia’s hurt has a voice throughout. She has questions and decisions of her own.
The story gives you something to recognize. The coaching helps you respond in your own life.
Start with the complete Day 1 previewA CLOSER LOOK · DAY 1
Rich“Being loved by God gives you somewhere to bring the truth.”
You can acknowledge sin, receive forgiveness, and begin changing your response. You can also hear your wife’s disappointment without making her responsible for reassuring you that you still have worth.
Read the Day 1 coachingWHAT YOU’LL PRACTICE
A different response when shame gets loud.
Separate what you did from what shame calls you.
Own the behavior without turning it into a verdict that you are worthless or beyond God’s help.
Come to Jesus before you have a better week.
Bring Him the truth you’ve been avoiding. Practice receiving mercy while you still feel ashamed.
Let a trustworthy man know more of who you really are.
Ask for help and make room for a deeper friendship, with someone who can be kind and honest with you.
Hear your wife’s hurt. Take your next step.
Listen without asking her to settle your worth. Notice hiding earlier and follow through on the support you need.
THE WHOLE EXPERIENCE
A story in your inbox. Room to go deeper.
Fourteen days to engage, reflect, and practice. Each email leads to a daily coaching guide you can take at your own pace.
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days to begin responding differently
Here’s what’s included.
- 14 EmailsFollow Garrett and Mia through the choices and conversations that make shame visible.
- 14 Daily Coaching GuidesA Closer Look with Rich and DeAnna, a coaching moment, and a takeaway to carry into your day.
- Faith and ShameScripture, reflection, and prayer that connect God’s care with what you’re facing.
- Borrow Our LanguageWords to help you begin a prayer or a conversation you’ve been putting off.
- Your InvitationA focused question and practical steps to help you use what you’re learning.
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Your wife does not need to enroll or take part.
BORROW OUR LANGUAGE
Somewhere to begin.
When shame makes words hard to find, use ours until you find your own.
“Jesus, I’m ashamed to say this plainly. I’m bringing it to You anyway.”A PRAYER FROM DAY 1
“I want to hear you. I’m trying not to jump in and explain.”A CONVERSATION FROM DAY 1
GROWING IN MARRIAGE
Rich +
DeAnna
Millentree
DeAnna
Millentree
Marriage Coaches
Faith, honest conversations, and a next step you can practice.
MEET YOUR COACHES
We want you to be able to bring the truth.
We’re Rich and DeAnna Millentree, marriage coaches and the founders of Growing In Marriage.
We created Wanted to help you face the shame connected to pornography and receive God’s love in the places you’ve kept hidden. We’ll help you notice the conclusions you’ve drawn about yourself, return to Scripture, and practice a response you can use in an ordinary day.
We’ll also keep making room for your wife’s experience. Her hurt deserves to be heard. Receiving mercy can help you stay present, take responsibility, and seek the help that fits what is happening.
Read a little coaching from usWANTED · A 14-DAY EXPERIENCE
Begin Wanted.
Fourteen days to engage, reflect, and practice. One payment. Full access for one man.
$30 one time · For one man
A FEW QUESTIONS
Before you begin.
Can I purchase Wanted as a gift?
Yes! One $30 gift includes Wanted for one man. Purchase a Wanted gift card, choose a card design, add a personal message, and send it right away or schedule a delivery date. He’ll receive a gift email with a personal activation link. His welcome email and Day 1 experience arrive when he activates the gift.
Are Garrett and Mia real people?
No. Garrett and Mia are fictional characters whose story helps you explore the themes in Wanted.
Who is Wanted for?
Wanted is written for Christian married men carrying shame connected to pornography. You may still be using it, have returned to it, or have stopped and still feel defined by your past. The experience gives you a way to examine that shame with Jesus and practice honest, responsible responses.
Is this mainly about stopping pornography?
The focus is the shame connected to pornography, including shame that follows use and shame that can contribute to hiding and returning to it. You’ll practice receiving God’s care, telling the truth, seeking support, and responding differently. Addressing pornography use and its effects remains your responsibility.
Does my wife need to do this with me?
No. Wanted is for one man, and $30 covers his access. Your wife does not enroll or receive the daily emails. The coaching makes room for her hurt and her choices without making her responsible for your progress.
What if my wife doesn’t know?
You can begin recognizing shame and seeking help now. The experience asks you to move toward honesty rather than use reflection as a reason to keep hiding. Seek trustworthy support to prepare for telling her what has been happening, with care for her questions and choices.
What is in each daily coaching guide?
Each guide includes A Closer Look with Rich and DeAnna, Faith and Shame with Scripture and prayer, The Coaching Moment, Today’s Takeaway, Borrow Our Language, and Your Invitation. You’ll have something to understand and a practical response to try.
Can I read Day 1 before deciding?
Yes. The complete Day 1 preview includes the story and coaching page. No email address or purchase is required to read it.
Will fourteen days fix this?
Fourteen days gives you a place to begin practicing. Wanted does not promise that pornography use will end or that trust in your marriage will be restored in that time. Your wife has her own experience and timeline. Continuing friendship, pastoral care, coaching, or counseling may be part of the work ahead.
Are there calls, videos, or a group I have to join?
The experience is built around written emails and daily coaching guides. There are no required calls, videos, or group sessions. You’ll be invited to seek real support and friendship in your own life.
Do I submit my answers?
No. Submitting answers to questions is not part of this experience.